An equal partnership means making an equal contribution to The Grand Project – in our case, reproducing. There are three types of household labour: Breadwinning – whatever you do to pay the bills Childcare – keeping the kids alive and functioning Household work – cooking, cleaning and all the admin it takes to keep things […]
A 50:50 pregnancy – I think we got this right
The burden of pregnancy seems to fall heavily on the womb-holder – managing physical changes, attending a plethora of medical appointments, setting up the house and administrivia. This seems unfair, and I suspect it creates bad habits, establishing one person as baby expert. Yeah nah. So when got pregnant with Bud, we gave ourselves distinct […]